We are remodeling. Founded on September 7th, 2000, we are now international with over 4500 visits per month from men like you and growing every day. Here's a peek at our new look.



You can click on it to get a better view though still in work . We are going global with new features, more articles, and a new monthly live meeting site.

The producers of this web site are a group of "bi"/"gay" married men just like you. Each of us felt totally alone until we realized that there were many other men exactly like us. When you feel like you are the only one on the planet facing life as a married family man but burdened with desires to love/touch/hug/have sex with another man without destroying your marriage, that only makes being bimarried a million times more difficult than it already is.

If you have found support from this site, or, have already reached a decision point in your life and now being bimarried no longer racks you with guilt, drop us a line on the forum board, join the egroup, write your story; as long as it's non-pornographic we're happy to post it, publish it, e-mail it, and you'll be helping out the 4000 men who visit this site each month.

If what you have are questions about being bimarried, then ask the egroup, ask us, ask someone because at long last, you are not alone!

Our Purpose

The purpose of this site is to provide a safe, effective environment by which bi-married males can join support groups, ask questions, and find a "clean" environment for which to discuss issues. This site is NOT a pornographic site.